expectations

how does that saying go again? "you can never have too much of something"? something like that.

the thing with people is that you can never be too obsessed or be wanting too much from them because they're flawed in so many ways that the more you idolise them, the more you realise over time they don't quite meet your expectations. it's like barely knowing a person and having all these preconceived ideas abt their entire personality and how they would be like, and then just as you put in the effort to get to know them better, you realise you don't really want to be closely associated with them. this is not making sense. i'll rephrase. dont build these high expectations of people if you don't really know them because people are naturally flawed, some in higher degrees than others and the best you can do is just get to know them and look past their imperfection. Unless of course their flaws outweigh everything that is good and nice abt them (i'm not talking physically), then by all means avoid contact with them because it's not worth your time. thats not being mean, is it? point is, the worst thing you can do is expect anyone at all to be perfect because i've done my research and i've come up with a theory, that is: ...............[kurr]................

don't calculate, just be open-minded with it all.